 Have you ever felt this kind of phenomena; whereas some of your trusted people changed? Or have you ever realized why people got separated after small incidents? Or perhaps, just over the ever passing time?
Been there done that. It's perfectly normal, my friends. You don’t worry and just be happy. Sometimes, somewhere, someone crossed one's path with us. To colorize our life, to give the life a bit meaning. Be it positively or, sadly, negatively. There’s nothing we could do about it. Everything has its own season
Everything has its own reasons. It doesn’t matter. It’s just the way it is. What would be matter the most is how you could make the most of it, and treat it as your step stone to your next phase; instead of your pain and sorrow. (because) Nothing is coincidental in this world.
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Photo © by TLT
taken on 2006 Dec 31,
somewhere near the new year
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Posted on Tue, Apr 29, 2008 - 21.27 wib
Someone expressed her objection against the so called originality of this article. She pointed out where did I got the inspiration, i.e. here. Noted. That link inspired me, alright, but I still believe that either both of us just talk the same lingo. Anyway, I put the link here, so those who don't buy it could be (fully) satisfied. And I thank the writer featured on the link for the inspiration, and also those who came up with this.
 | uda di link tu barusan :p |
 | "mind or us?" kata si positive thinking |
 | can i add some comments, relationship (i mean general relationship with friends not specifically with ur spouse) is like u2 holding hands and taking steps together. we have tendecies to have relationship with someone that is in the same level w us. and when i talked about level, i talked about multifactors, like financial, mentally, education, family background etc.
but the thing is when one of u is decided to reach for a higher level, and the other choose just to stay, u cant holding hands anymore.
sometimes, we have to let things go if we want to move on, if we want to reach the 'higher steps'. dan mungkin ini ga ada hubungannya, but well i like this quote and id like to share w others.. "talent and charisma (and connection and relationship and etc) can bring u to the top, but only character that can keep u there" :) |
 | hahahaha.. dasar! Thanks anyway for the link. Yeah, your posting there inspired the same thoughts on me |
|  can i add some comments, relationship (i mean general relationship with friends not specifically with ur spouse) is like u2 holding hands and taking steps together. we have tendecies to have relationship with someone that is in the same level w us. and when i talked about level, i talked about multifactors, like financial, mentally, education, family background etc.
but the thing is when one of u is decided to reach for a higher level, and the other choose just to stay, u cant holding hands anymore.
sometimes, we have to let things go if we want to move on, if we want to reach the 'higher steps'. dan mungkin ini ga ada hubungannya, but well i like this quote and id like to share w others.. "talent and charisma (and connection and relationship and etc) can bring u to the top, but only character that can keep u there" :)  very good writing! Thanks for sharing it here.
Orrr.. perhaps would you like to have my password, and directly write it here, instead?
*grin |
 | in order to reborn, one must first die... (hermann hesse) |
| ah situ pasti ngerti, saya percaya |
| ini di bukunya hesse yang mana? sidharta? |
 | I think we all change throughout time because we are always evolving. new experiences, new friends, new environment, time.. they played a large part in sculpting us and eventually, changing us. some people could accept that change, and sadly some couldn't.. but then again, just as the world keeps revolving, we have to keep moving forward too. |
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 | Nothing is coincidental in this world. = setuju!
kita ada sebagaimana kita ada bukan karena kebetulan tapi karena suatu rencana besar yang udah disiapkan untuk kita ;) |
 | thank you.
for writing such a beautiful 'note'..
:)
love it. |
| i thought i read this same exact sentences somewhere else in the Multiply.
if you happen to copy this from another blog i read, link pleaseeee.... :) Hi Iie,
I dont remember whose blog I copied, but anyway, s/he spoke my lingo -- the very same way I think about the matter(s). So whoever she or he is, or, if YOU happened to know who s/he is, please offer s/he my apologize for not linked the article to his/her blog.
(because) Whatever it was, I never meant to plagiate things, either in this so called virtual world, and/or even in the real life. I have my own ethics standard, ever so high I never have any doubt to apologize to anyone, or, on another case, to leave one particular friend who I strongly felt had violate my code.
Along the way, I believe ALL my friend who happened to know me well or have read me through this blog's pages for the years, have known or realized this personal principle of mine from the very beginning.
PS:
Thanks for reminding me though, appreciate that much
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 | Agree!, embrace the pain and sorrow then change them to be your energy to the next phase. Just don't loose the lesson.
** nebeng tambahin opini ye. :)>- |
 | bagus mas Cahyo,
(belajar) |
 | I dont remember whose blog I copied, but anyway, s/he spoke my lingo -- the very same way I think about the matter(s). So whoever she or he is, or, if YOU happened to know who s/he is, please offer s/he my apologize for not linked the article to his/her blog. saya link aja yah....so everyone can also read. :) ini postingan blog yg dimaksud di atas: http://jodprak.multiply.com/journal/item/81ya, terinspirasi itu gpp kok, asal tidak menjiplak. there's no such a thing as true originality. |
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