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terbanglah's posts with tag: email
Dear Pak Bambang, They always said about the wonder of the internet world, and yes, I admitted it. Lots of examples happened and many things got connected. For instance, this email you forwarded below about the said "…………". Have you realized that the email was originally come from me? Nope, the file attachment was not mine, and of course, I do not mind to see it evolve around so many people. As a matter of fact, be my guest. However, I did modify the email to enable it to better reflect my experience, to share what I thought, and especially to urge those fellows who is still in doubt, to take more active participation in this "blessing" (quote-unquote). Nevertheless, what disturbed me the most was, your careless act to copy and paste my shared experience stated in the email below - just like that. Thus gave misperception to those who has later read it, that you are indeed its original writer. In spite of that, there are quite a number of people who could instantly recognize that the lines were mine; since they are regular visitors to my blog, and thus could instantly recognize my writings. Concerned people like these who has contacted me to confirm me about things like yours. Maybe you think that was not much to be fussed around, and believe me sir, neither do I. Yet I took the chance and thus am exercising my rights to do so; to express my deep concern about this. And to let you know that I am. Thank you, Regards,
TLT PS: 1. The email above was sent to a stranger named Bambang S…… from a certain Logistic company who has forwarded an email originated from me that perhaps could mislead people who read it that it was his writing. 2. I don’t wanna use the word “plagiarism”, but prefer it as “misleading”. 3. Previous flame about plagiarism was raged here: New Witch on the Blog!
 | Love | Nov 11, '06 2:33 PM
for everyone |
Love
by Anonymous
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him or her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he or she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love.
Love chooses you.
All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into our life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong.
Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them, rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cool, they revert to seeing their love as need, they cease to be someone who generates love, and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,
and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart.
Love has its own time, its own seasons,
and its own reason for coming and going.
You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying.
You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.
But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,
there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN
Email received [Full stop]
Wed, Jun 14, 2006 - 8:33 PM
Photo courtesy of TLT.
Taken on my sister's marriage, Feb 5, 2005
@ Masjid Raya Al-Musyawarah, next to Mall Kelapa Gading, Jakarta
The person located right in the middle was my Dad.
Guys,
Udah pada tahu kan, kalo minuman keras itu berbahaya? Tapi belakangan ini semakin banyak kecenderungan sebagian dari kita yg beranggapan bhw kebiasaan minum minuman beralkohol tuh, jauh lebih aman daripada ngerokok.
Well, objectively, that's arguably spoken sih. Karena kalo ngerokok itu kan selain ngerusak diri lo sendiri, lo juga bakal ngeracunin lingkungan sekitar & orang lain; belum lagi kalo buat ibu2 hamil. Sementara pengaruh buruk minuman keras paling2 "cuma" bakal elo rasakan sendiri - itupun relatif lebih mudah dihilangkan dg cara banyak2 minum air mineral (hints: do it simultaneously when you take that alcoholic drinks).
Tapi ternyata barusan ada laporan pandangan mata soal betapa berbahayanya kebiasaan minum itu. Utk lengkapnya, silahkan baca artikel di bawah. Jadi, silahkan dipikirkan lagi baik2, ya? Cheers!
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Bahaya Minuman Keras
Sumber: unknown
Serang turis masuk ke dalam bar lokal untuk minum-minum. Di dalam bar tersebut, ia tertarik ketika melihat tulisan "BIR & WHISKY GRATIS" dan bertanya kepada bartender.
"Oh itu", ujar bartender "Untuk mendapatkannya anda harus berhasil melalui 3 (tiga) tes yang sampai saat ini tak seorangpun bisa melakukan ketiga-tiganya".
"Tes apa saja? "
"Pertama, anda harus menghabiskan 1 (satu) gallon air cabe mexico yang luar biasa pedasnya" kata bartender sambil menunjuk ke tong yang ada di ujung meja bar. "Kedua, di belakang bar ini ada seekor buaya dan anda harus bisa mencabut giginya yang sakit" "Ketiga, di lantai atas ada seorang wanita yang tak seorangpun pria di kota ini mampu membuatnya orgasme, anda harus bisa melakukannya".
"Wah... sulit sekali..... tak seorangpun bisa"
Sang turis pun mengurungkan niatnya dan akhirnya membeli beberapa botol whisky.
Setelah beberapa botol habis diteguknya, akal sehatnya mulai berkurang, berkurang dan berkurang sampai akhirnya ia berkata, "Bartender! Saya akan lakukan!"
Diambilnya air cabe mexico dan ditenggaknya sampai habis. Kemudian, dengan muka merah dan bercucuran air mata, ia pergi ke belakang bar. Segera terdengar suara raungan buaya yang semakin lama semakin keras dan akhirnya senyap. Pengunjung bar lainnya menunggu dengan cemas.
Tiba-tiba pintu belakang bar terbuka dan tampaklah si jagoan kita, dengan baju dan celana robek-robek, tubuh kotor dan luka berdarah, tapi wajahnya penuh senyum kemenangan. Diiringi pandangan takjub para pengunjung bar, ia, dengan langkah maboknya, berjalan terhuyung-huyung menghampiri meja bartender dan menggebrak meja;
"Sekarang, tunjukkan padaku, kamar wanita yang perlu dicabut giginya itu!!!"
Terbanglah's NOTE: ------------------------------ Just a fun forwarding article - quite funny and interesting. Though I do know that some of you out there could'nt quite agree or goes further by condemning things like these. But hey, it's NOT a prophecy. Besides, we're mature enough to be responsible to ourselves, right? Kenapa ini nggak bisa dibilang "ramalan"? Karena hasil yg didapat berdasarkan survei perilaku psikologis/sosiologis. Emang sih, kebenarannya nggak dijamin 100%; tapi dg metode statistik yg dipakai, N-Population yg ada kan bisa ngasih tingkat keandalan sampe sekian persen. Selain itu, soal sifat & karakter mnrt gue juga bukan urusan "ramalan" (ramalan itu baru yg namanya syirik - remember what the Al-Qur'an phrase said about this), tapi lbh ke hasil pengamatan atas sekian N-Population. Dan itu pun bisa dibuktikan. Kalaupun ada penyimpangan, itu bukan berarti ramalannya yg nggak pas (karena itu memang bukan ramalan), tapi lebih ke arah deviasi statistik yg terjadi. But let's cut the crap, and just enjoy this article. Btw, my fave color is "green" & "white", and I was born on Friday somewhere in August. What's yours? Tell me!:p ====================== Watak Manusia Berdasarkan.. Sep 1, '06 12:20 PM source: unknown copied from: here---------------------- ...warna favorit ---------------------- Pastilah hampir semua orang mempunyai salah satu jenis warna yang sangat disukai dari sekian banyak warna yang ada atau yang biasa disebut dengan warna favorit. Nah, dari situ kita bisa lihat watak kamu berdasarkan warna favorit kamu. Warna Biru Jika kamu menyukai warna biru, maka kamu termasuk dalam tipe pemurung, selalu menyenangkan dan selalu bertindak pasif dalam segala hal. Mendambakan ketenangan dan ketentraman. Kamu selalu mendapat kesulitan dalam pergaulan. Demikian pula dalam bercinta karena kamu pintar dalam menyembunyikan perasaan. Warna Hijau Warna kesukaan kamu hijau, maka kamu adalah tipe yang sangat romantik, menyukai keindahan, menyenangi alam dengan udara yang sejuk. Kamu adalah seseorang yang selalu memegang prinsip. Dalam hal bercinta kamu mengidam-idamkan calon teman hidup yang penuh toleransi dan dapat dipercaya. Warna Kuning Kesukaan kamu warna kuning menandakan bahwa kamu memiliki sifat optimis. Kamu tipe periang dan senang bergaul, tidak memiliki penampilan yang loyo. Sifat tolong-menolong selalu ada dalam diri kamu, karena menolong merupakan suatu kewajiban mutlak bagi kamu. Kamu orang yang tidak pernah meremehkan siapapun juga, walaupun seseorang itu dungu atau bloon. Warna Ungu Kalo warna Ungu (Violet) menjadi warna favorit kamu maka kamu adalah tipe yang benar-benar luar biasa. Dalam menghadapi masa depan kamu tidak pernah ragu-ragu, apa yang dikerjakan kamu adalah yang terbaik. Kamu pandai benar dalam mengikuti perkembangan jaman. Dalam bercinta, hanya merekalah yang kuat mental yang bisa mendekati dan menjadi kekasih kamu. Warna Putih Jika kamu menyukai warna putih, maka kamu adalah orang yang dilahirkan ke dunia dengan sempurna, banyak orang mengagumi kamu karena sifat angun, sifat idealis dan moral kamu yang teramat tinggi. Tak pernah angkuh, senang menolong siapa saja yang membutuhkan bantuan kamu. Warna Hitam Kamu termasuk tipe orang yang sangat lincah dalam hal-hal tertentu saja. Kalo kamu berada dilingkungan yang tidak disukai, maka kamu akan menjadi murung. Kamu selalu tampil menarik, rapi, cukup banyak lawan jenis berusaha mengejar dan merebut cinta kamu. Warna Merah Kamu termasuk tipe yang sangat berwibawa dan juga senang mengayomi teman yang lemah. Walau sering kali bergaul dan bercanda tapi kamu bisa menahan diri. Banyak orang mengatakan cinta, tapi kamu selalu berpikir dan berpikir lagi. Kamu termasuk tipe yang sulit jatuh cinta. ---------------------- .. hari lahir ---------------------- 1. Hari Senin Tidak pelit, ikhlas hati dalam memberi, tidak bisa menyimpan uang, senang membela kebenaran, mudah tersinggung dan tidak pandai bicara. 2. Hari Selasa Mudah terpengaruh, tidak mempunyai pendirian tetap, gampang naik darah, tidak sabaran dan selalu mau menang sendiri. 3. Hari Rabu Pendiam namun kalau sudah bicara tidak terduga, tidak suka mencampuri urusan orang lain, baik hati, suka menolong dan banyak rejeki. 4. Hari Kamis Pendiriannya tidak tetap, suka dipuji, mudah emosi, mudah terbujuk oleh rayuan halus dan tidak sabaran. 5. Hari Jumat Disukai orang banyak, kuat mental, suka menolong, suka memberi nasehat yang baik dan suka mempelajari ilmu pengetahuan 6. Hari Sabtu Giat bekerja, rajin pandai mencarari rejeki, ditakuti orang banyak, pandai menempatkan diri dan bisa menyelesaikan apa yang menjadi tanggung jawabnya dengan baik. 7. Hari Minggu Pandai bergaul, disukai orang banyak, berjiwa besar, suka merendahkan diri, pandai berbicara dan dapat mengatasi masalah yang dihadapiya dengan baik. ---------------------- ... bulan lahir ---------------------- Bulan Januari Wataknya: - Tenang dan berwibawa - Suka berterus terang dan tidak suka basa-basi - Pandai menyimpan rahasia dan bisa dipercaya - Disukai banyak orang karena selalu kelihatan ceria - Mandiri dan tidak suka meminta bantuan pada orang lain - Pandai mengatur keuangan - Agak pendiam dan lebih senang memperhatikan dirinya sendiri - Teliti dan tidak sembarangan melakukan pekerjaan. Bulan Februari Wataknya: - Mempunyai hati yang tulus - Perasaannya peka dan mudah tersinggung - Senang dipuji dan selalu menuruti apa yang diinginkannya - Suka humor dan hormat pada siapa saja - Keras hati dan mempunyai pendirian tetap - Agak pemalas dan suka mengingkari janji Bulan Maret Wataknya: - Baik hati dan suka menolong sesama. - Suka kehidupan yang serba wah. - Seleranya tinggi. - Tidak tegaan dan selalu memberi pada orang yang kesusahan. - Agak pemalu, namun jujur dan tidak pernah bohong. - Mudah terpengaruh dan tidak kuat menghadapi godaan. - Suka melalaikan kesehatan dirinya sendiri. Bulan April Wataknya: - Tidak mau mengalah dan selalu ingin menang sendiri - Pembosan - Senang dipuji - Agak boros walau pandai mencari uang - Mempunyai otak yang cerdas namun tidak suka diperintah - Tak pernah memilih dalam berteman Bulan Mei Wataknya: - Pandai menguasai perasaan - Pandai mengambil hati orang lain - Punya selera tinggi dan senang kehidupan yang serbah wah. - Senang menunda pekerjaan. - Agak boros walau rejekinya bagus. - Tidak suka basa-basi dan tidak senang dipuji. Bulan Juni Wataknya: - Romantis dan suka menolong - Tidak mempunyai pendirian tetap - Suka berpikir yang muluk-muluk - Mudah tersinggung bila perasaanya tersentuh - Agak pemalas dan baru mau bekerja bila di iming-iming hasil besar - Selalu ceria walau hatinya sedang kesal. Bulan Juli Wataknya: - Senang berkhayal - Kalau sudah marah, kata-katanya tajam - Tidak mempunyai pendirian tetap - Senang dipuji - Suka menolong pada sesama - Pandai bicara dan berotak cerdas - Agak pemalas Bulan Agustus Wataknya: - Mempunyai perasaan yang peka/halus - Cepat tersinggung - Suka menghayal dan berpikiran yang muluk-muluk - Tidak mudah terpengaruh - Agak pemalas - Kalau bekerja lebih menuruti kehendak hatinya sendiri. Bulan September Wataknya: - Mudah tersinggung dan cepat naik darah - Baik hati dan jujur - Bisa menyimpan rahasia - Suka berfoya-foya - Pandai menyimpan uang namun tidak pelit - Suka menolong sesama dan pandai mendidik anak Bulan Oktober Wataknya: - Berjiwa besar dan mau mengalah - Pandai bicara - Cerdas dan baik hati - Memiliki tekad yang kuat - Tidak sabaran dan agak boros - Pikirannya tidak tetap dan selalu berubah-ubah Bulan November Wataknya: - Tabah dan kuat dalam menghadapi segala cobaan - Pandai mengerjakan setiap pekerjaan - Pandai mengambil hati orang lain - Agak pemalas dan suka menunda pekerjaan - Banyak berpikir - Agak pendendam dan tidak mudah memberi maaf pada orang yang bersalah - Keras hati Bulan Desember Wataknya: - Mudah menaruh rasa percaya pada orang lain - Kalau mengerjakan sesuatu suka tergesa-gesa - Tidak sabaran - Tidak mau mengalah dan selalu ingin menang sendiri - Mudah terpengaruh - Jujur dan baik hati - Pemborosan dan suka memaksakan kehendak
Inspiring, umm.. Colorful Debate
compiled by: terbanglah lebih tinggi
Yesterday YZ sent me this interesting article (thanks for sharing!:p), added by even more interesting debate between her and a friend from her own mailing list, named Dika. Both are female, smart, fun-loving, and young prominent lawyers on different well-known Jakarta law firms. Be noted that YZ is the same person that I praised here
The article’s content itself is already quite good; but the debate made it even better. And the extensive colors taken to differentiate on whose comment on what definetely made it fresh and hilarious!
And it’s not just the color; because if you carefully read their comments line by line, you could gain something more than simply a fun-forwarding article. It was their own understanding and opinion that made it even stronger and more understandable. It also shows each person’s personality traits, ideals, attitude, and perhaps their own basic principles. Simply cool!
No further comments from me, just read it. Ofcourse if your poor aging eyes still can ever stand it. But just don’t push your frontier!:p Enjoy the ride..
Jakarta 12870 Pancoran
Thu, Aug 31, 2006 – 23:59 wib
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the INTRO
by Yenny Zulmadjdi:
Wed, Aug 30, 2006 - 18.00 wib
Mas,
Tadi aku dapet fwd-an artikel ini dari Ichel.... bagus deh... dah dapet belum? well, i thought i'd like to share it with you as well as the comments made by my friend and replied by me in different colors... hehehhehehe......
The comments in blue, pink, and brown are my friend's comments (dika).... the rest of the colors are my comments.... dan intinya, kami adalah orang2 yang tidak penting karena senang memberikan komentar2 tidak penting...hihi
PS: read the email from bottom..
PSS: I think this is the prettiest email i've ever seen... soooo colorful!! huehehehhehehe, ga penting kaaaaannn?? :p
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the DEBATE
by YZ & Dika:
Somehow I do not agree with all of this....... it's just too eutopist, if you elaborate further on the article, you may also find the weakness of each sentences and may arise those weakness into agonies, for instance:
a. A person who trow a trash into a garbage can is hired for doing those kind of work. First, you cannot be sure of one person for his diligence in cleaning the room can work better than other person. This person is not applying as a cleaning service and he is not hired as a cleaning service. Pay attention to the sentences. This person walks into an interview (for a position in the company), and he got the job (whatever it is) because he picked up the trash on the way to the interviewer's office. The interviewer admired the action and accepted this person in the company. Exactly!!! how can you tell that a person is liable for the position (whatever it is) in that company just by picking up a trash???? I think the HR Manager had just withfully misconduct his duties. Dika dear, this is just a parable.....a parable! I'm sure that the sentence doesn't mean to show you that he got accepted JUST because he throws the garbage. But the action is actually a "complimentary" action (amongst other basic qualified traits that the person have, i suppose) that can actually helps him (and convince the interviewer) in getting the job. I can say that the person who made this parable choose such action to be used in the sentence because picking-up-trash-on-the-way-to-the-office action can emphasis the point of view that such action is quite rare to be found these days and for one to conduct such action can show that the person still cares for small matters; therefore, he can be trusted to be given a bigger responsibility/matter (cailah!). I know that it's a parable, but it's a bad parable....... doesn't capture a perfect parable either!
b. It's such a wonderful irony that a child called his mother beautiful just because she didn't shout and slam the door to him. Well, maybe using a child and his mother in the story can give the wrong impression. But imagine if the conversation did not happen between a child and his mother; but a girl to her friend, or one person to the other person. I guess this sentence won't be too-much-of-an-irony. It's still is an Irony Yen, just imagine that I say this words to you "Yenny, you are so beautiful today because you didn't shout at me at all!" I don't think it's an irony. I think the sentence just want to emphasize how being angry (i.e. shout/slamming door) can take away your beauty. Yenny, if you're beautifull, you're always be beautifull no matter if you're in a bad mood or not. The problem is, that child suffers from her mother angriness, that's the point of the story. And alas, the wordings "Ternyata untuk memiliki kecantikan sangatlah mudah, hanya perlu tidak marah-marah" just don't fit in with the story...........
c. Working hard is one way to sucess, but overwork is oneway to self-mind explosion: the farmer did not teach his son how to work effectively, he make his son become stressfull!! I don't think this sentence reflects "overwork". The sentence is using "bekerja giat"; so I don't think by "bekerja giat" can make someone stressful (Although it depends on the person ;p) But the article said that the plants will grow by itself Yen? wouldnt it matter if you work normally and get everything done rather than you work more that your usual and get everything done plus something that don't really matter? Working is stressfull enough, so dont add another task to your destiny. But the sentence is telling a story about a farmer. "Bekerja dengan giat" to plant the field is his main job. You mean bekerja dengan giat in a normal sense or abnormal sense?coz if in normal sense, the farmer won't get any critisism from his coleague.
d. If you are trying to find a ball in a grass field, make sure that you know where the ball is located first, and then you may find the ball. If you dont you may intellegently assume of where the ball would be in the field. Working step by step is a good learning, but sometime it's just not efficient to work on something from the very first step when you know you only have to start in the middle. True! But this won't work if you don't know where the ball is located. So, the moral of this sentence, if you don't know where the ball is (i.e. you can't locate it) you would have to work step by step; from the beginning-middle-last. Fine, that might work, but you can do research, or ask somebody that have work on that job before, so you can get a clear picture and not wandering around and find a ball from one step to another, and please remember that you may also fall into a loophole on that matter. So my best set is a perfect start for a perfect step. That's true, but it won't work if no one else has ever done the research and there's no info whatsoever about it. Then you'd have to start from the beginning. Then start with a perfect start, do your own research and catch each important point, then leave all the unecessary steps and get to the main point, then give a perfect result!
*Bener kaaaann, makin ga penting :p* *jadi tambah gak penting lagi* *i like how our e-mails look.....so colorful!! jadi penting deh....hihi* *kekekekekkekekekekkee*
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the ARTICLE
Hidup Ini Sederhana
source: unknown
Ada seseorang saat melamar kerja, memungut sampah kertas di lantai ke dalam tong sampah, dan hal itu terlihat oleh peng-interview, dan dia mendapatkan pekerjaan tersebut.
Ternyata untuk memperoleh penghargaan sangat mudah, cukup memelihara kebiasaan yang baik.
Ada seorang anak menjadi murid di toko sepeda. Suatu saat ada seseorang yang mengantarkan sepeda rusak untuk diperbaiki di toko tsb. Selain memperbaiki sepeda tsb, si anak ini juga membersihkan sepeda hingga bersih dan mengkilap. Murid-murid lain menertawakan perbuatannya. Keesokan hari setelah sang empunya sepeda mengambil sepedanya, si adik kecil ditarik/diambil kerja di tempatnya.
Ternyata untuk menjadi orang yang berhasil sangat mudah, cukup punya inisiatif sedikit saja.
Seorang anak berkata kepada ibunya: "Ibu hari ini sangat cantik."
Ibu menjawab: "Mengapa?"
Anak menjawab: "Karena hari ini ibu sama sekali tidak marah-marah."
Ternyata untuk memiliki kecantikan sangatlah mudah, hanya perlu tidak marah-marah.
Seorang petani menyuruh anaknya setiap hari bekerja giat di sawah. Temannya berkata: "Tidak perlu menyuruh anakmu bekerja keras, Tanamanmu tetap akan tumbuh dengan subur." Petani menjawab: "Aku bukan sedang memupuk tanamanku, tapi aku sedang membina anakku."
Ternyata membina seorang anak sangat mudah, cukup membiarkan dia rajin bekerja.
Seorang pelatih bola berkata kepada muridnya: "Jika sebuah bola jatuh ke dalam rerumputan, bagaimana cara mencarinya?"
Ada yang menjawab: "Cari mulai dari bagian tengah."
Ada pula yang menjawab: "Cari di rerumputan yang cekung ke dalam."
Dan ada yang menjawab: "Cari di rumput yang paling tinggi."
Pelatih memberikan jawaban yang paling tepat: "Setapak demi setapak cari dari ujung rumput sebelah sini hingga ke rumput sebelah sana."
Ternyata jalan menuju keberhasilan sangat gampang, cukup melakukan segala sesuatunya setahap demi setahap secara berurutan, jangan meloncat-loncat.
Katak yang tinggal di sawah berkata kepada katak yang tinggal di pinggir jalan: "Tempatmu terlalu berbahaya, tinggallah denganku."
Katak di pinggir jalan menjawab: "Aku sudah terbiasa, malas untuk pindah."
Beberapa hari kemudian katak "sawah" menjenguk katak "pinggir jalan" dan menemukan bahwa si katak sudah mati dilindas mobil yang lewat.
Ternyata sangat mudah menggenggam nasib kita sendiri, cukup hindari kemalasan saja.
Ada segerombolan orang yang berjalan di padang pasir, semua berjalan dengan berat, sangat menderita, hanya satu orang yang berjalan dengan gembira.
Ada yang bertanya: "Mengapa engkau begitu santai?"
Dia menjawab sambil tertawa: "Karena barang bawaan saya sedikit."
Ternyata sangat mudah untuk memperoleh kegembiraan, cukup tidak serakah dan memiliki secukupnya saja.
After lunch, This will be something light at heart - whilst indulging myself with a cup of hot Nescafe Mochacino with its creamy chocolate flavour and strong caffeine taste, and listening to GooGoo Dolls' Iris, Five for Fighting’s Superman, or some other “dedicated” songsUploaded after being edited here and there; cutting unnecessary lines that warned something like "..if you do not fwd this to xx people, then in the next yy days, you will be zzz..blah-blah-blah.." No one would buy it anyway, right? But the rest of it, as re-posted here, is really something for us to ponder.. For the rest of the afternoon, have a great day! 'Till then, take care. Jakarta 12870 Pancoran Wed, Aug 30, 2006 – 14.00 wib --------------- DID YOU KNOW? source: unknown Did you know that those who appear to be very strong in heart are real weak and most susceptible? Did you know that those who spend their time protecting others are the ones that really need someone to protect them? Did you know that the three most difficult things to say are: "I love You", "Sorry", & "Help Me" Did you know that those who dress in red are more confident in themselves? Did you know that those who dress in yellow are those that enjoy their beauty? Did you know that those who dress in black are those who want to be unnoticed and need your help & understanding? Did you know that when you help someone, the help is returned in two folds? Did you know that it's easier to say what you feel in writing than saying it to someone in the face? But did you know that it has more value when you say it to their face? Did you know that if you ask for something in faith, your wishes are granted? Did you know that you can make your dreams come true, like falling in love, becoming rich, staying healthy, if you ask for it by faith, and if you really knew, you'd be surprised by what you could do. But don't believe everything I tell you, until you try it for yourself, if you know someone that is in need of something that I mentioned, and you know that you can help, you'll see that it will be returned.
All,
This following article is ubelievable, intriguing, and yet entertaining. But did you know that we can determine if a person is sexually active or not by looking at his/her skin? (grinned)..:p
I got this from a friend’s email. Before it, I don’t know..:p Don’t blame me, or trying to find further answer from me. I’m incapable due to totally lack of experience and for being a single.. ahahah..
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the BENEFITS of SEX
Source: unknown.
1. Sex is a beauty treatment.
Scientific tests have shown that a woman who has sexual relations produces big amounts of estrogen which makes hair shiny and soft.
2. To make love in soft and relaxed way reduces the possibilities of suffering from dermatitis and acne. The sweat produced cleans pores and makes the skin shine.
3. To make love allows to burn all the calories accumulate is this romantic love scene.
4. Sex is one of the safest sports.
It strengthens and tonifies all body muscles. It is more enjoyabel than doing 20 lapses in the pool. And you don't need special shoes!
5. Sex is an instantaneous cure against depression.
It frees endorphines in the blood flow, creating a state of euphoria and leaves us with a feeling of well-being.
6. The more we make love, the more we have the capacity to do more. A body sexually active releases a higher amount of pheromone. This subtle aroma excites the opposite sex !
7. Sex is the safest tranquiliser in the world.
It is 10 TIMES MORE EFFICIENT THAN VALIUM.
8. To kiss everyday allows to avoid the dentist.
Kisses aid saliva in cleaning teeths and lower the quantity of acids causing enamel weakening.
9. Sex relieves headaches.
Each time we make love, it releases the tension in brain veins.
10. To make love a lot can heal a nasal congestion.
Sex is a natural antihistaminic. It helps fight asthma and spring allergies.
Harsh words from my ex college friends, to respond my article; the Nadine Gate . You can read my respond to him as posted below. At first, my impulse was to sent it right away to the mailing list. But then I do my 2nd thought.. and the 3rd.. and the 4th.. and so on. So here it is, my personal response; posted here instead. ==================================== NADINE? How Come U talk About Her in This Situation???? ------------------------------------------------------------------------- email posted on [campus name][class of...]@yahoogroups.com from Hxxx xxxxx Rachmxx, on Thu Aug 10, 2006 - 12:56 am hmm.. well, begini.... gw (seperti biasanya, terlepas apa pun kata orang, gw ga peduli) cuma sekedar pingin bilang : KENAPA.... dalam situasi ketidak adilan dan kezaliman dan kebiadaban yang dipertontonkan oleh negara2 adikuasa sebut saja XX, Xxxxxxx dan tentu saja aktor lapangan adalah XXXXXX sang pembantai jiwa2 tidak berdosa di Pxxxxxxxx dan Lxxxxxx yang hingga saat dan detik ini masih terjadi, dimana yang dibunuh secara telanjang dan kasat mata bukan hanya para pejuang tanah airnya yaitu kelompok Hxxxxxxxx ataupun HXXXX , tapi juga anak2 kecil, para wanita dan para orang tua yang tidak bersalah menjadi korban kebrutalan bangsa2 biadab itu yang mengaku sebagai Adikuasa, pembela Hak asasi Manusia, dan pembela demokrasi.... dimana misalnya yang kita lihat pada tragedi pembantaian penduduk sipil di desa Qxxxx bukan hanya terjadi satu kali tapi tragedi pembantaian yang kurang lebih sama pernah juga terjadi beberapa tahun lalu ditempat yang sama di Desa Qxxxx Lxxxxxx... dimana bukan cuma 1 atau 2 orang nyawa yang melayang sudah tapi bahkan lebih dari hitungan angka 1000 nyawa mayoritas masyarakat sipil melayang di Lxxxxxx akibat dibombardir oleh penjajah rezim Xxxxxx Xxxxxx... (laknatullah alaihim) HANYA dengan alasan karena ingin membebaskan penculikan 2 orang tentaranya oleh Hxxxxxxxx.... saya ulangi HANYA karena 2 orang yang ditangkap karena berusaha masuk ke dalam garis perbatasan Lxxxxxx, MEREKA melakukan pembantaian atas warga sipil di Lxxxxxx dan Pxxxxxxxx seolah-olah itu adalah LEGAL..... sementara mereka kaum teroris negara Xxxxxxme Xxxxxx BUKAN HANYA menculik dan memenjarakan tanpa proses hukum, atas para anggota dan ketua parlemen Pxxxxxxxx .....Tapi juga bahkan.... selama berpuluh tahun sudah menduduki, membunuh, membombardir, dan menjajah ratusan ribu bahkan jutaan penduduk Pxxxxxxxx dan Lxxxxxx yang terus menerus dengan bermacam cara berjuang mempertahankan hak-haknya meskipun hanya dengan persenjataan seadanya. dan begitu pula menengok situasi dalam negeri, yang begitu penuh haru biru peristiwa pilu menimpa negeri ini, yang sebagian orang sudah menganggap bahwa itu sudah bukan merupakan teguran dari Allah SWT tapi bahkan itu adalah Adzab karena sudah begitu cueknya umat dan bangsa ini terhadap aturan2 normatif hukum2 Allah SWt. Begitu cueknya para pemimpin negeri ini terhadap urusan moral Rakyatnya, karena asyik bermain korupsi-korupsian, bahkan MAJALAH PXXXXXX yang seAsia Tenggara tidak ada negeri yang penguxxa dan rakyatnya memberi ijin untuk penerbitannya, tapi ijin itu terjadi di negeri ini..... meskipun sejuta umat rakyatnya sudah menolak keberadaan itu tapi itu semua seakan-akan tidak ada artinya. Sementara tentu masih segar dalam ingatan kita, secara beruntun kekuasaan Allah SWT diperlihatkan kepada umat manusia melalui Tsunami Aceh, Gempa Bumi, Merapi, Pangandaran, dan bahkan lumpur ... dan entah apa lagi selanjutnya.... dan entah kapan giliran kita sendiri yang merupakan Adzab itu... dan dan dan seterusnya seterusnya, TAPI KENAPA KITA ... para Sarjana S1 [nama jurusan] Angkatan [tahun], yang masih hidup dan diberikan karunia akal sehat dan rejeki yang cukup masih begitu 'gembira'nya, begitu antusiasnya, begitu spektakulernya berdiskusi tentang Nadine sebagai 'duta' Indonesia, entah itu sisi baiknya ataupun buruknya, SEMENTARA BAHKAN MAJALAH PXXXXXX, INFOTAINMENT yang mengancam mental dan pribadi anak2 dan masyrakat kita pun tidak pernah masuk dalam pembahasan sedikitpun dimilis ini... tapi untuk NADINE....??!!Wow...bukan main... WALAUPUN begitu terus terang dengan agak MALAS karena gw bisa tebak arah dan komentar yang akan gw terima dari milis ini, Sengaja tetap gw forwardkan rekaman interview, (yang sayang sekali beberapa orang tidak bisa memutarnya) yang dilakukan oleh Stasiun TV Xxxxxxx SkyNews dengan George Galloway seorang Anggota Parlemen Xxxxxxx, bukan orang Indonesia, bukan seorang Muslim, bukan orang Lxxxxxx, bukan orang Pxxxxxxxx dan bukan orang Axxx tapi dia AOI (Asli Orang Xxxxxxx).... yang secara terbuka, jujur dan objektif membela perlawanan Hxxxxxxxx dan hak orang2 Pxxxxxxxx dan Lxxxxxx atas agresi dan kebrutalan yang dilakukan oleh trio murderer... X.xxxx, xxxx dan xxxxxx..... silakan komentar.. karena seperti yang gw bilang, gw sdh tidak peduli apa kata orang....
”When I have learnt to love God better than my earthly dearest,
I shall love my earthly dearest better than I do now.”
Her,
Tue, Jul 11, 2006
17:06:27 wib
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Great Advice
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Don't date because you are desperate.
Don't marry because you are miserable.
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat.
Don't lie.
Don't pretend.
Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.
Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough and know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don't stagnate!
Don't regress.
Don't live in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back.
Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr./ Ms. Right.
Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr. Wrong because your biological clock is ticking.
Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for some of life's more hasty decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what you can be.
Simplify your life.
Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons.
Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself.
Don't commit when you are not ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.
Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.
Say those words. Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.
Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.
Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life. You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you - except YOU.
It is true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid.
Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in your God.
Don't grow old.
Just grow YOU!
When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back.
Your time is your life.
That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.
 From: Her
To: Her
Date: Fri, 28 Jul 2006 11:09:54 AM
Have a great Friday everyone ^_^
weekend’s just around the corner!!
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Charles Schultz Philosophy
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The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the "Peanuts" comic strip. You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just read the e-mail straight through, and you'll get the point.
1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winner for best actor and actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.
How did you do?
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The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.
Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
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a. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
b. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
c. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
d. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.
e. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.
Easier?
The lesson:
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The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care.
"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today.
It's already tomorrow in Australia."
(Charles Schultz)
Guys,
Ada saat tertentu, di mana kita merasa begitu berbeda dg pasangan kita. Dan itu, katanya, semua secara garis besar dapat dibagi ke dalam 3 kelp besar; yaitu saat kita berhubungan pada 6 minggu pertama, setelah bareng2 selama 6 bulan, atau setelah 6 th kemudian. Yah, namanya juga katanya.. Buat yg belum, this is for you to ponder about. Tapi buat yg udah ngalamin; gimana, cocok nggak? Hhehee…
Jakarta 12870 Pancoran
Thu, Jul 27, 2006 - 13:48 wib
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PERBEDAAN
source: unknown
Sebelum Tidur :
6 weeks: selamat bobo sayang, mimpi indah ya, mmmuach.
6 months: tolong matiin lampunya, silau nih.
6 years : besok kita beli selimut 1 lagi ya biar ngga rebutan gini.
Pake Toilet:
6 weeks : ngga apa2, kamu duluan deh, aku ngga buru2 koq.
6 months: masih lama ngga nih?
6 years : brug! brug! brug! (suara pintu digedor), kalo mau tapa di gunung kawi sono!
Ngajarin Nyetir:
6 weeks : hati2 say, injek kopling dulu baru masukin perseneling ya
6 months: pelan2 dong lepas koplingnya.
6 years : pantesan sering ke bengkel, masukin persenelingnya aja kayak gini, biasa bawa angkot yach!
Balesin SMS:
6 weeks: iya sayang, bentar lagi nyampe rumah koq, aku beli martabak kesukaanmu dulu ya
6 months: mct bgt di jln nih
6 years : bawel, bentar lagi juga nyampe kok.
Proses kencan:
6 weeks : I love U, I love U, I love U.
6 months : Tentu saja aku mencintaimu.
6 years : Iyalah gw mencintai lu, kalo ngga.. ga bakal kawin ama lu..
Kembali dari kantor:
6 weeks : Sayang, aku pulang nich (muach).
6 months : aku pulang!!!
6 years : Ibu lu masak apa hari ini??
Hadiah (ulang tahun):
6 weeks : Sayangku, kuharap kau menyukai cincin yang kubeli
6 months : Aku membeli lukisan, nampaknya cocok dengan suasana ruang tengah
6 years : Nih duitnya, loe beli sendiri deh yang loe mau
Telepon:
6 weeks : Baby, ada yang pengen bicara ama kamu di telpon
6 months : Eh...ini buat kamu nih...
6 years : WOOIII TELPON BUNYI TUUUHHH....
Masakan:
6 weeks : Wah, tak kusangka rasa makanan ini begitu lezaattt...!!!
6 months : Kita makan apa malam ini??
6 years : HAH? MAKANAN INI LAGI?
Memberi maaf:
6 weeks : Sayangku cintaku, aku mengerti... aku maafin kamu kok...
6 months : Awas!! jangan di ulang lagi yach..
6 years : Kenapa sich lu ga pernah dengerin kata2 gw!!!!
Baju baru:
6 weeks : Duhai kasihku, kamu seperti bidadari dengan pakaian itu
6 months : Lho, kamu beli baju baru lagi?
6 years : BELI BAJU ITU HABIS BERAPA??
Merencanakan liburan:
6 weeks : Kalo kita liburan ke Vienna atau keliling eropa pake kapal pesiar gimana??
6 months : Emangnya kenapa kalo liburan ke Istanbul pake pesawat carteran??
6 years : Jalan2? emangnya kenapa kalo dirumah aja???
Nonton TV:
6 weeks : Sayang, mau nonton apa malam ini?
6 months : Gw lebih suka filem ini.
6 years : Gw mo nonton bola, kalo ga mau ikutan, tidur duluan aja, gw bisa nonton sendiri kok…
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